10 Ways to Know if You’ve Met Your Perfect Match
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You Aren’t Threatened By Their Ex
Relationships dominated by jealousy and feelings of insecurity are not usually the ones that last. To have a successful and long lasting relationship you need to feel secure in how your partner cares for you the most romantically. So even though you might have some momentary feelings of insecurity, if you’re with your match, you will understand that their ex is just a stepping stone in their past that led them to you.
Wanting to Be Your Best
Healthy relationships encourage personal growth instead of restricting it. Being in a relationship with a person that could be your match should inspire you to be the best you can possibly be. It isn’t the same as changing who you are, it’s living up to the potential of what you’ve always known you could achieve but didn’t have the proper motivation to before. Don’t be surprised if you smash your workout goals or start to excel at your career once you have a future with your match in mind.
Opening to New Ideas
It’s easy to become set in your ways after a couple decades of living on this planet, and even cynical about things you’re uncomfortable or uninformed about. But when you’re truly with your match, you’ll be more open to different viewpoints and less judgmental of ideas that didn’t make sense in the past. You’ll listen to their opinions with disregarding them just because they are unfamiliar to you, and allow yourself to be open to change.
You Imagine the Future
When you imagined you future before you ex, it was never quite like this. The scale of plans has moved from good to grand and you are excited for a future that you both will share. Maybe this means vacation plans, perhaps making a home together or even having children and starting a family. When you can imagine a future that is expansive, one that makes you feel like the sky is the limit, you might really be with a partner that will be your match for the rest of your life.
It’s important to remember to date outside your comfort zone so you can experience a variety of potential partners.