8 Tricks to Instantly Click With Everyone You Meet
Do you remember being impressed by someone you just met? What about that person impressed you and helped you connect with him/her so well? Can you imagine if you could click instantly with everyone you meet?
It takes a few different things to make you appealing, here we share some tips:
A smile is the first thing that catches a person’s eye. It signifies kindness, generosity, and friendliness. You seem interested in the group and enthusiastic. Smile when you meet people, enter a room, or answer the phone.
• Remember names
Remembering names is important, addressing people with their names, pronounced correctly, is even more important. Use proper names in conversation, it helps develop a connection between you. It’s widely believed that most people prefer to be addressed with their names more than any other word.
• Learning attitude
Invest some time acquiring information as it is a tool that helps people connect. Listen to others and learn from them, everyone has something to offer you, no matter who they are or where they come from. Keep a ratio of 80:20, listen 80% of the time and talk 20% of the time.
• Eye contact
Make eye contact when meeting people and making conversation. Really pay attention, don’t be distracted by your phone, attractive people walking by, or even a plate of food or drinks. Break it reluctantly and slowly when they are done speaking. This leaves a lasting impression, one study reported higher feelings of respect for those who followed this technique.
• Opposites attract?
‘You’re going to understand that person better if you share the same views,” says psychologist Dr. Gian Gonzaga of eHarmony Labs. There are many relationship experts who believe we are more likely to click with someone who is similar to us, there is however, the Michelangelo Phenomenon, wherein totally opposite couples may be triggered by a different type of motivation.
• Take an interest
Get involved with people, take genuine interest in them. Know them well and hear their stories. Ask questions and listen patiently to responses, this will make them feel good and they will be more likely to interact with and remember you.
• Treat them like an old friend
Even when meeting for the first time treat them like an old friend. This will cause subconscious reactions in your body, your voice will soften, and your face will be friendly. This adds to your personality and the other person will likely be pleased by your warm behavior.
• Look for the good
Be generous with people you meet and look for areas on which you agree. Be patient and choose your words wisely. Don’t be too authoritative or loud with your words. If there is something you don’t like put your thoughts politely and explain your point of view. You are likely to be appreciated by others for your kind behavior.
Follow these tricks and you will be able to click instantly with people you meet. This should increase your circle of friends and contacts, enjoy!