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How To Decode Your Child’s Drawings

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How To Decode Your Child's Drawings

How To Decode Your Child’s Drawings

Children’s artwork can give you insight into their world if you know what you’re looking for! From the colors they use to the shapes they draw, almost everything has a hidden meaning and can be analyzed to further understand what they are feeling.

This video will show you the meaning of some of the most common shapes and colors used by children in their drawings. If you are a parent or have a small child in your family, you should definitely know these techniques!!!

Children often don’t have the words to express how they are feeling, but trained psychologist are able to use their drawings to translate what a child may be feeling inside.


Pay attention to the colors in the picture. The choice of color can be significant.

  • Black & Purple

These colors suggest dominance. Black in particular is often associated with negative feelings and can be favored by a child who is relatively demanding.

  • Blue

This color is popular with children who have a caring nature and enjoy socializing with others.

  • Red

This is the color of excitement, this color is used especially by children who don’t want to miss out on anything, it’s also the most popular color for children. It can also mean enthusiasm, energy, emergency, and attention. A red house or a red door are reasons to investigate.

  • Pink

This color shows a need for love and appreciation and is commonly favored by girls.

  • Green

Green is the color of those who like to be different. These children often like space and are artistic and intelligent. This color also represents being calm and peaceful.

  • Yellow

Yellow demonstrates intelligence, a sunny nature, and curiosity.


  • Some studies have shown that younger children preferred using warm colors, while older children preferred using cooler colors in their drawings.

Drawing can help externalize emotions and events painful to speak about including:
Painful Experiences, Repressed Memories, Unspoken Fears, Anxieties, and Guilt

Very often kids draw their family members holding hands together. This is a good sign of a friendly environment in the house. When your child feels that his parents are going through conflict he/she will most likely place them far from each other in the drawing, maybe he will even draw some obstacles in between them.

Different shapes in a picture have different meanings, here are a few common shapes and their meanings when drawn by children:

How To Decode Your Child's Drawings

The Sun
The sun is the most universal shape and it’s indicative of parental love. Balloons floating toward the sun could mean the desire to spend more time with their parents.

A House
A House commonly illustrates their feelings toward their home; walls relate to the strength of the ego, thin walls can show weakness. Doors represent interaction with others, no doors means the child is blocking contact, an open door can show a strong need for social contact, a second side door on the house can mean the need for another way out (an escape).

No windows or windows only on the second floor can mean the child is closed off and doesn’t want anyone in his/her business.

Drawing arrows can be seen as quite a negative doodle as it indicates built-up anger and resentment.

Birds often indicate travel & freedom.

Cats in a drawing can mean jealousy.

Circles in a drawing can indicate the feeling of emptiness.

This animal in a painting can have the meaning of loyalty.

Studying your child’s drawings may not make you an expert on drawing analysis, but it will hopefully help you understand your child a little better and will help you establish a better connection with your child!


Edited 8/27/14 SCD

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