When something goes wrong, we are most likely to blame those we love the most. But why is this? As children, our parents held a power over our emotions, and we trust them with our feelings. The same happens when we fall in love. We give that person power over our emotions, so when something goes wrong and our feelings are hurt, it is easy to blame the one we love the most. That person has learned to an extent, like our parents, how to protect our feelings. However, they don’t have the power that we think they have, and sometimes feelings get hurt through no fault of their own.